Your Child Just Disclosed...Now What?
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Tell the child that you believe them
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Thank the child for telling you
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Be aware that the child may feel scared or shameful
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Ensure the child’s physical and psychological well-being
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Allow the child to disclose only what and when they wish
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Explain the next steps to the child
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Support and comfort the child
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Write down the child’s disclosure in their own words with dates and times--this can help inform law enforcement about the situation
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REPORT AND SEEK HELP ASAP
DO!
DON'T!
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Show fear, shock, surprise, panic, or anger
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Make assumptions about what the child is telling you
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Confront the offender
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Make promises you can not keep
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Doubt the child’s disclosure
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Ask leading questions or pry
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Push for information
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Blame the child for not disclosing sooner
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Doubt the child’s disclosure
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Ignore the child
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Delay reporting to protect the offender
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Blame the child for the abuse
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Gossip
1. Child discloses
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2. Report is made to MDHHS (855) 444-3911 or Law Enforcement
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3. A report will be obtained by CPS or Law Enforcement
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4. CPS/LE will submit a referral to Mashkawizii Child Advocacy Center (MCAC) ​
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5. CPS/LE will schedule an appointment at MCAC with your family
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6. MCAC’s team will contact you for more information and answer any questions you have
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7. MCAC will conduct a forensic interview with your child, provide advocacy services, and make additional referrals as needed
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8. MCAC/LE/CPS will follow up with you regarding your child’s case